“Rejection!” No one likes it or wants it, but it happens. Everyone has felt rejection at some point. Does it feel good? Absolutely not, but it is a part of our lives. So, how do we deal with feelings of rejection, whether real or not? Some of the most intense feelings of rejection can happen in relationships. On the other hand, it can come about when someone shows interest in someone they want a relationship with. Whether in a relationship or wanting to begin one, rejection hurts.

There are things we must remember when we are subject to feelings of rejection. First, do not doubt yourself or think less of who you are as an individual. Everyone is entitled to personal thoughts about an individual, but we don’t have to own their thinking. For example, you may think someone is not beautiful or worthy of attention. Please think what you may, but it doesn’t mean the person is ugly or worthless. One man’s rubbish is sometimes another man’s treasure. “Rejection!” sometimes we have to reject it.

Secondly, if someone rejects you, it could be because God does not intend for that person to be in your life. Everything that glitters is certainly not pure gold. Under the shiny layers could be a rusty surface. Hence, when we face rejection, we must consider the source. Considering the source applies to even non-relationship rejection. You could feel rejection at your job, in your place of worship, in your family, and so on. Nevertheless, before you look negatively at yourself, look at where the rejection is coming from. “Rejection!”

In conclusion, rejection should never make you feel inadequate or unworthy. You may have flaws, but you are still lovable and valuable. We all must embrace our imperfections and remember we are enough. “Rejection!” not for me. If the world hate you, ye know it hated me before it hated you. John 15:18. I’ll return next week with a new post, “Control!”

Be encouraged, and God bless!

Sister Jackie