Have you ever thought about why some women accept particular treatment from others? Especially men, in ways that are not conducive to their well-being? Why do they succumb to foolishness? Furthermore, why allow themselves mistreatment and emotional anguish? Looking from the outside, we may wonder. However, with everything in life, there is a reaction or action. For some, their response is minimal. They either retreat, do not say anything or go along to get along. That’s another discussion for another day. Nevertheless, the individual has to say, “No Power Over Me!” Otherwise, the situation may not change.
Accordingly, we are responsible for our mindset, wholeness, and emotional stability. We cannot depend on anyone else to provide these things for us. Further, having healthy self-esteem is so vital. When we allow manipulation, we render self injustice. I am aware that many Christian women are lonesome and desirous of companionship. But, anyone or anything that diminishes who God created you to be is not worth it. It’s time with God’s divine help to take a stand for your self-worth. Time to say to all negativity, “No Power Over Me!”
Thus, people are getting out and about more due to the relaxing of many covid restrictions. More relationships may have the opportunity to develop. Although, covid cases are yet on the rise from variants. Hopefully, the need for companionship will not overcast making good personal choices. If something doesn’t look or feel right, most likely, it is not correct.
Lastly, remember, you have the power to choose what is acceptable or not acceptable to you. This power applies not only in personal relationships but in other relationships too. There are times to be quiet and times to speak up. Know the difference. You are unique, wonderfully made by God, and a jewel for the right man to find. Love yourself, and to all things that are not uplifting to you, say, “No Power Over Me!” He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Isaiah 40:29. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “For My Good!”
Be encouraged, and God bless!
Sister Jackie
I read a recent interview of a celebrity who recently divorced her celebrity athlete husband. She mentioned how it’s so easy to stay in relationships that are not good for you because of the comfort. The difficulty comes in the leaving. And that’s so true. Many women would rather stay in relationships (whether romantic, friendship or familial ones) where it doesn’t benefit them or it causes some stress..instead of leaving because it’s comfortable for them. But we all have to choose what is acceptable or not acceptable for us and sometimes what’s not acceptable includes moving on.
It all comes down to choice! In all situations, if we consult God first, He will help us to make the right choices for our life. Thank you for sharing those thoughtful comments. God bless you, and Heaven’s joy reign over your life!