In last week’s post, I spoke of being free to be ourselves, which is crucial in maintaining healthy relationships. Nevertheless, on the other hand, we must learn how to “Adapt!” in our relationships. Adaptation is merely allowing oneself to move beyond and be open to someone or something else. Can you think of times when you must adapt to something new? You may be starting a new position or getting a new boss or supervisor. What about a move into a new neighborhood, city, state, or home? The list is endless, but the result is the same: adaptation of some sort will always surface.

Despite how much we want to hold what is familiar to us and what we do, my dear sisters and brothers’ adaptation can benefit us. Sometimes, as we “Adapt!” to new ways, it can yield a surprising return. Why do you think it is hard for us to adapt to someone else’s ways? Is it because we fear letting go of what is familiar to us? Relationships are give and take, compromise, and much work if they are to succeed. Most importantly, every relationship, whether personal or of another kind, requires individuals to make some adaptations in their lives.

Lastly, we should not fear losing who we are if, at times, we must adapt to someone else’s ways. As I continue in my season of life, I understand that I don’t always have to be all things to all people. Furthermore, if I adapt to new things, new ideas, and new ways, it makes life easier and less stressful. Therefore, let’s not get stuck in just what we know, but at times learn to “Adapt!” to something more. Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and he that hasteth with his feet sinneth. Proverbs 19:2. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “Hunted or Hunter!”

Be encouraged, and God bless!

Sister Jackie