Let’s do a little self-examination. Look in the mirror. Who is the person looking back at you? Think about the characteristics of the person. What are the strengths and weaknesses that you possess? I pose these questions because what you see and who you are will define your role in a relationship. What do I mean? Every person takes themself into a relationship, the good, bad and ugly. Therefore, what you see or who sees you gives a lens view of expectations and realization of things to come. With this being said, “What Do You Attract?”
Accordingly, did you ever think why some people end up with the wrong person over and over again- one relationship after another? As much as they desire to have a fruitful, loving relationship, it doesn’t happen. They end up with the same type of person as the last fiasco. There is always a method to the madness. We need to know the self-image we present when we desire to have a relationship with someone. For example, if a person sees us as very strong and always giving, although it’s great to be that way, with the wrong person, one may find themself being taken advantage of in many cases. “What Do You Attract?”
Otherwise, do individuals gravitate to you that are not complementary to who you are as a person? More importantly, do you accept that person not to be alone even though you know the relationship won’t work for you inwardly? To go a step further, when the relationship ends, do you allow the same type of person to enter your life the next time around? Is there not a pattern being formed that is clear as day? “What Do You Attract?”
Lastly, for those sisters who desire a significant other and ultimately a spouse until death do you part, look closely at who you are attracting. It may mean a world of difference in the relationship. Don’t settle for what you know is not suitable for you. If you find yourself gravitating toward the same type of characters who broke your heart in the past, stop yourself. You may be attracting a particular kind of guy because of your attractive characteristics. But, you end up getting the short end of the stick. “What Do You Attract?”
In conclusion, don’t keep visiting the same circus and leaving with the same old clown. A clown may dress differently, but a clown is a clown, no matter the apparel, wig, or make-up! For those who desire a mate, watch and pray along with patience until God moves and sends you your Boaz. “What Do You Attract?” I pray God’s best will come your way! Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Philippians 2:2. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “My Other Family!”
Be encouraged, and God bless!
Sister Jackie