The last two years of unprecedented events due to the pandemic, economic issues, social unrest, etc., have caused the lives of many adults to be altered. Stress is at an all-time high, with anxiety levels skyrocketing. Just about every day, someone on the television or radio or in private conversation is talking about people’s suffering. Hence, many are lonely, in distress, or experiencing depression. Each of us has our own stories of how our personal lives or those close to us are affected. People are plain tired. However, “What About The Children?”

Although young children may not understand all repercussions of the pandemic or other serious issues, whether health-wise, economics, or even political and social unrest, they know something is not correct. I vividly remember the beginning of the pandemic in 2020; my oldest granddaughter said, “Grandma, this virus is messing up everything!” Little did she understand or know the full effects, but her young mind knew enough. Her classes were now remote, with me as her on-site teacher. Unfortunately, our awaited summer vacation plans to the Tennessee Mountains disappeared. She no longer could have play dates with her friends. These are only a few changes. Amid everything, we still need to ask, “What About The Children?”

Without a doubt, the feelings of our children are so important. They need to have a strong relationship with those who care about them. Spending quality time with our children and grandchildren when possible can lessen some of the anxiety they may feel. My sweet granddaughter sometimes still mentions how we can’t do some of the things she loves to do as readily as in the past. Whereas, on many a day, we would head to the aquarium or botanical garden or the mall to walk around and enjoy an Auntie Anne’s pretzel, but not readily now. Oh, how things are different! If we feel the absence of normalcy, “What About The Children?”

In brief, you may wonder about the purpose of this post. It is simple. It is just a reminder that having a close relationship with young children or grandchildren lets them know they are not alone in what they are feeling. Make specific times to sit and talk with them, watch a movie or Disney channel, or play games. However, the activities are not as important as the relationship connection. Yes, we have come a long way from where we began in the pandemic, but it is yet here. Circumstances change daily, and as they do, we need to strengthen the bonds with our young ones, including teenagers.

In conclusion, remember their youthful days won’t last forever, but the memories you make with them will survive. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, extended family member, or Godparent, give extra love to the children. Foundationally, cement the relationship you have with them. It saddens me the number of children who are now a suicide statistic. Take a little time to do something special to brighten a child’s day. The rewards to you will be worth more than silver or gold. “What About The Children?” They are God’s most precious gifts. Therefore, let’s treasure them. I dedicate this post to my three beautiful granddaughters, London, Riley, and Brynn. Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. Psalm 127:3. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “No Judging!”

Be encouraged, and God bless!

Sister Jackie