Barriers, whether natural, artificial or within, hinder or block passage to something. Can barriers be beneficial to us? Yes, by all means. For example, on the natural side, barriers on a highway can save lives. Anyone in their right mind would acknowledge its presence and not trespass around it. Accordingly, sometimes we encounter obstacles in our relationships; our behavior generates some, and others come about by the behavior of the other person in the relationship. Regardless of their origins, they can be detrimental and hinder a warm, loving relationship. Therefore, it is vital to take steps to “Remove the Barriers!”

Furthermore, with everything else we encounter daily, for any relationship to be fruitful and succeed, self-checks for personal barriers that could hinder growth must be made. Sometimes our actions may be unhealthy in our connection with another individual, whereas they are hindrances. I cannot stress enough that communication in all relationships is essential. How do you know how the other person views you if you rarely converse and genuinely show interest in their feelings? After all, neither person is a mind reader! “Remove the Barriers!”

In brief, genuinely listen to your significant other, spouse, family members, and co-workers. All of these groups form various relationships. After careful listening, then discussions should follow. For example, if a wife keeps saying she does not feel any appreciation or lacks opportunities to express her feelings, there are specific contributing barriers. Is the other spouse dominating or uncaring toward how she feels? There needs to be some issue resolution before deeper problems take root. Without a doubt, barriers can form in any relationship; the more significant part is what you do to “Remove the Barriers!” And shall say, Cast ye up, cast ye up, prepare the way, take up the stumblingblock out of the way of my people. Isaiah 57:14. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “What Will They Say?”

Be encouraged, and God bless!

Sister Jackie