Do you always try to be the strong one? The go-to person when others are in need? Sometimes, we put ourselves in the position of being the always dependable person. Is that a bad thing? Definitely no way. Nevertheless, at some point, you need to be able to say to someone, “I Need You!” It is suitable for others to know that they can depend on you and that you will be there in times of need. However, especially in relationships (all kinds), trying to do everything alone is never a good idea. As women, we should be the weaker vessel, although we know that is not always the case.
Accordingly, my dear sisters, let’s learn not to try and do everything independently. Even if you are not in a personal relationship but in a family or work relationship, sometimes tell someone, “I Need You!” Believe it or not, people need to feel that they are in a position where someone needs them. This concept really applies, though, to men. After all, they are to be the head. Right? Hence, I am learning that I don’t have to be all things to everyone at all times. I don’t have to do as much as I do, especially when someone is willing to do something for me. Moreover, it’s nice only sometimes to feel that you must accomplish everything.
Furthermore, life is too short to walk this journey carrying so much weight. My sisters let someone else bear the burden of getting things done if they can. Life is much too short not to enjoy it. Often, we experience exhaustion from laboring when we don’t have to. I am learning someone else can remove the garbage or change the light bulb. It doesn’t have to be always done by me. So, what if someone does things differently? Just accept and be grateful for the assistance. You need me and “I Need You!” to survive life’s journey. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. Psalm 23:1. I’ll be back next week with a new post, “Fix It!”
Be encouraged, and God bless!
Sister Jackie
Ms. Jackie thank you for this wonderful word and reminder. I learned during this journey of my son being in the NICU that I cannot do this on my own. I have been receiving a-lot of support and although I am grateful it is very overwhelming. At times, I do not want to be bothered but that is when I should rely on them. God sent them to lift me up so that I can keep pressing forward.
I understand this journey can be overwhelming for you, dear Nicole, but rely on the assistance and strength you can receive from others. I know it’s hard sometimes to lean on others because we want to carry the load ourselves, but remember there are times Jesus wants to carry us and our load. And He does this through others that He sends our way. Let Him. My prayers remain with you that God will strengthen you in this journey you are on with your sweet baby. Additionally, know that God’s amazing grace is working for you and your baby’s good. Trust Him! May God’s comforting and loving hand hold you close as He takes you through. Remember, He does all things well!!!! God bless you, Nicole. ❤️
Love it! “So, what if someone does things differently? Just accept and be grateful for the assistance.”
This is profound to me because, sometimes we can learn from someone else simply by watching them do it in a different way…it may even be better than our way. Some have the “my way or the highway” attitude and refuse to accept help because someone doesn’t do things the same as they do, even though the outcome accomplishes the task. I also understand that the sense of independence and personal accomplishments can be a challenge to some, but wisdom helps even those to Thank God for putting it on someone else’s heart to be of help to them, for it blesses them both. And by rejecting help sometimes may lead to both missing out on a blessing.
Again, thank you for sharing these words of wisdom. And may God continually bless you in this ministry.
Thank you for those powerful words. You summed it all up nicely. The key word for me is “wisdom.” Using wisdom will help us to meet more of our challenges positively. And being grateful to God for sending us help along the way will bless us even more. God bless you, and may God’s heavenly wisdom guide your life as you seek to encourage others.
This therapy session is super real to me. Might have to print this one out and tape to my bedroom wall.
Thank you, and I’m glad this post blessed you. May God continue to bless and keep you. He knows all your needs and will supply them.
Thank you so much! This is encouraging to me and of a truth, others really do appreciate knowing they are needed by us and it also shows a form of trust in the other person as well!! To God be the Glory! God’s anointing be with you always!
Thank you for your encouraging words. I love the word “trust.” Yes, when we allow others to provide us with needed help, it shows a level of trust for the individual and God. We must trust how God supplies our needs. God bless you, and heaven smile upon you with grace and love.