Today’s post is about a subject that is dear to me and that I haven’t discussed in a while. It is forgiveness. From time to time, we need to self-exam and see if there is a need to render forgiveness to someone. Unforgiveness can cause an abrupt interruption in our life. Not forgiving those who are causing us current pain or lingering pain from past deeds is unhealthy. I read a saying somewhere; I can’t remember where at present, but I found the statement interesting. It is, “A butterfly can’t fly until it forgives the one who clipped its wings.” I don’t know about you, but “I Can Fly!”

The older I get, the more I understand the seriousness of ensuring that I remain in good standing with God at all times. Life is short, with all of us facing so many uncertainties day in and day out. Therefore there is absolutely no time to have an unforgiving heart toward anyone. Yes, people can hurt us to the core of our being, especially those closest to us in relationships. Nevertheless, we all must remember that the aftermath of life is longer than the short journey of life we are on now. Has someone clipped your wings? If you are struggling to forgive that person, ask God to help you, and He will. Next, tell yourself, “I Can Fly!”

Lastly, remember forgiveness is for your freedom, not the other person. They are responsible for their acts of forgiveness toward others. Another reminder to keep in mind-forgiveness does not condone the deeds done. Henceforth you may never be close to the individual who has inflicted pain on you again. But, assuredly, your clipped wings have the opportunity to heal, and you can say, “I Can Fly!” again. Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven: Luke 6:37. I”ll be back next week with a new post, “What’s In Your Quilt?”

Be encouraged, and God bless!

Sister Jackie