Everyone loves to get or receive more, but how many people love to give more? In today’s society, it’s all about what most people can gain, whether from their jobs, from others, or in relationships. Nevertheless, it can be fulfilling when we give, whether it’s material items, our time, or our affections. “Give More, Get More!” Although, we must remember that giving must not be built on what we want to receive from someone we give to. Subsequently, that defeats the whole purpose of giving. Do you agree? Hence, it can also leave us disappointed.
In terms of relationships, nevertheless, giving may sometimes get tricky. Should we give of ourselves, our time, our affections, etc., to make the relationship viable and pleasant for the other individual? Yes, because we cannot expect the other person to do all the giving. On the other hand, you may think that you are giving more than what you are receiving. And you may be correct in your thinking. No one wants to be in a relationship where they constantly give of themself, and the other individual is selfish and offers very little of themself. “Give More, Get More!” happens when both individuals have the interest of the other one at heart.
Let me get to my thinking on this topic. When two individuals genuinely want the relationship to flourish, both will give, most likely encouraging the other person to put forth even more. I am not speaking of material things alone, although they have their place, but more on the emotional side. It’s often the small gestures that are so meaningful. Telling someone you love them and your smiles and kind nature supports your words. Just making someone feel love and appreciation goes a long way. Years ago, when I used to make my husband’s lunch for work, which was not a sandwich but dinner food, I always included a napkin that I wrote on, “Made with love.” He loved that. It was a very simple deed. He reciprocated with many niceties. “Give More, Get More!”
Lastly, if you are always giving and the other individual is mainly a receiver of your love and kindness, you need to think about some things if you are not married to the individual. In this situation, “Give More, Get More!” may result in you actually getting more when you give yourself more love and do not allow anyone to take advantage of your love and kindness. Hmmm, a little on the deep side, but think about it. Giving is good, whether in relationships or doing for others, but not when others abuse your giving. Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7. I’ll return next week with a new post, “A Blessing In Disguise!”
Be encouraged, and God bless!
Sister Jackie”
This is so timely for me. A confirmation about this very thing. “Although, we must remember that giving must not be built on what we want to receive from someone we give to.” Sometimes, I don’t want to accept something from someone because I know they are expecting something in return that I may not want to give. For some that give can be hurtful if you don’t give them what they want, and then they try to make you feel like you owe them because of what they did for you. And yes, you are right this is DEEP, but sometimes to get to the bottom of the problem, we have to “go deep”! For some do abuse the generosity of others, no matter the type of relationship they have! Thank you as always for sharing “REAL TALK”! God Bless and Keep You Sis Jackie!💕😊✔
“Lastly, if you are always giving and the other individual is mainly a receiver of your love and kindness, you need to think about some things if you are not married to the individual. In this situation, “Give More, Get More!” may result in you actually getting more when you give yourself more love and do not allow anyone to take advantage of your love and kindness. Hmmm, a little on the deep side, but think about it.”
Using this as my affirmation for today: “Giving is good, whether in relationships or doing for others, but not when others abuse your giving.”
Thank you for those thought-provoking comments. Yes, I agree that some people give because they look for others to give and expect their giving to match their expectations. In those cases, they should not give to avoid being disappointed. When we give wholeheartedly, we will receive more, and it may be from someone we least expect. God bless you, Sis. Audrey, and may your giving bring you bountiful blessings from above