The first “C” in relationships is “Communication!” With good communication, relationships can flourish and be fruitful. Communication is to a relationship the same as macaroni is to cheese. The two go together and form a perfect union. Nevertheless, many relationships suffer because one or both individuals are unwilling to talk to one another when issues arise. Shutting down avenues of communication only serves to close doors in the relationship, which can lead to more significant problems. “Communication!” Keep the lines open.
On the other hand, it’s vital to understand that all communication is not verbal. What is not said sometimes screams louder than any words we can utter. Body language communicates our feelings more often than our mere words. Do you ever observe people you are in a conversation with? They may appear only to be listening, but how they look at you, stand, or gesture may indicate something more. “Communication!” Healthy relationships need open and honest communication. This concept applies to relationships between spouses, significant others, family members, friends, co-workers, and church members.
Accordingly, silence is not always golden. Sometimes, it gives you answers you were not looking for. In like manner, have someone ever spoken positively about you or given you accolades or other kind words, and the onlookers never said a word? Another example is that you may cook a special dinner for your spouse or significant other and are excited about it, but the other person has yet to respond. Henceforth, it makes you feel many different emotions. Well, let me tell you something. Your joy and peace belong to you. You alone, therefore, let no one take it away.
As I conclude, remember that communication in all types of relationships is essential to all involved. Even when you are hurting, you need to talk. If the other person shuts down, you keep the lines open. Most importantly, make your communication with God through prayer a daily requirement. Sometimes we don’t hear God speak and wonder if He is listening to us. Without a doubt, He hears every word you utter in prayer and recognizes every groan. “Communication!” is often the road to recovery in many situations. The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment. Psalm 37:30. The next post will focus on the second C in a relationship, “Compromise!”
Be encouraged, and God bless!
Sister Jackie
Communication is definitely key for any relationship. Many breakdown of relationships (both romantic and platonic) are the result of miscommunication. It’s key to ensure that communication is open and consistent in any type of relationship.
Yes! Thank you for taking the time to comment. May God continue to bless you in your daily walk with Him.
Love it! I try to stay reminded that “communication” is a two-way street, which can be challenging at times. Not only expressing one’s own thoughts, but also listening to the thoughts or responses of others. Communicating through conversation can benefit both sides when hearing and listening are just as important as speaking of one’s own personal viewpoint or outlook. I am reminded that we speak to our Lord God, but, we must also hear and listen for Him in the conversation for effective communication with Him.
God bless you Sis Jackie, as you continue to enlighten and inspire us, and yet allow each of us a voice to communicate on this blog also.
Yes, communication should be two-way for all involved to benefit. Conversations must include speaking and listening interchangeably among parties. Thank you for constantly digesting and rendering thoughtful comments to these posts. Your encouragement is so appreciated. May the blessings of God shower you from above.